Affordaboy

   
   "Our leaders come from among ourselves, our culture produce inadequate leaders and breed problems that leadership cannot fix, which generates further problems new leaders cannot address". (Dr. Myles Munroe)

      What masculine is, is simply what a man does. Assuming responsibility for your actions; being sympathetic, sensitive, and caring; and gentleness are perfectly fine for men. A true man is not a hard-nosed, violent, overgrown child; he's a mature, kind individual. (from Urban Dictionary)

     I understand that the most bereaved person in the world is a man who doesn't  gain respect. Respect is something we earned; it cannot be procured by a price or haggle by a trade. People respect you if you respect them, men respect women if they respect men or the other way around. These is my empiricism, these is what I see, these is what I choose not to be. Don't get me wrong, I'm talking in a world's perspective.

    What I envision? Picture it out like a yielding company, from step one to step two, down to the last process. A long process where you can see a cartel of quality assurance traversing about, every aberration made, back to the rejection chamber to be refined again.

     Men are born but great men (affordaboy) are MADE, genetically engineered.

    I believe that the predominant issue in our society today is not poverty, but the inability to raise up men of honor, integrity and character (see affordaboy)

    Therefore MAN SHALL BE PROCESSED. I'm articulating to all  "men" out there. God is not focused on your imperfections, He is focusing on your potential, if it is maximized?, your life too would be different. It's not about any reward you receive, but it's about who you are, there's something in you that you need to develop.

     Each of us has a distinctive bequest and must serve that gift to the world. We are men, we have aptitude, your bequest is your aptitude . You are in-charge in your breadth of gifting. "You have a leadership spot to fill and a function to carry out. Your gift determines that spot and that function. Your value is determined by your gift. Someone needs your gift and you must serve it to the world".  

     A man that is processed becomes reliable, he becomes incumbent and he becomes successful. A man of success? What usually makes it good are not the "good" things about the story, no. It's the bad things that perk his ears up. It's the tragedy inherent in the struggle that keeps him tuned in. For a man who understands the power of God in his life, understands that he can rise above any circumstances in life. The apostle Paul stated in his letter  that "For every man's work must be tested by fire", Yes there are testings, there is fire. But no fire is going to shatter the vision in a man's heart. 

   Becoming an Affordaboy is like advancing in the park (JURASSIC PARK). It requires total surrender, total obedience and total commitment. It's pulling yourself from the normality of life and making space for God. God is the ultimate source of change, the closer we get to know Him, the more He made us seek Him. Knowing God is infinite, it is immeasurable. I consummated that "living for God" is "dying to yourself". ("It maybe tough or painful at times but it pays to choose to do what is right." -te JZK)

(Here comes the tough fight, the issue of communication, sex and money)

to be continued..........................................